Good Everyday Foundation

Source: www.neurolinguistic.com

Children are often told that certain forms of behavior are 'bad', 'indecent' or 'harmful', without explaining why.

This fact often generates negative responses, which may be conditioned to the point that recur throughout life.

Consider the case of a mother with an excessive sense of protection towards the children they want to ask him some limitations of behavior.

may have taught him that "evil" away from the courtyard, which is "indecent" show interest in bodily function, that is "sin" to express a strong desire and that is "harmful" Drinking coffee.

whether that condition will be with a certain intensity cagionerà in children, even in later life, feelings of anxiety and guilt every time you expose to similar stimuli.

became an adult, you may feel a sense of guilt if it is away from home for a trip, feel uncomfortable in situations involving personal hygiene, feel guilty every time you buy a luxury item, and suffer insomnia after drinking a cup of coffee.
Our perceptions are influenced by the teachings and experience in our lifetime. They in turn, affect the way in which our mental processes adapt to the environment.
When our environmental situations elicit negative responses than positive, we become dissatisfied with life.

This discontent can manifest itself in physical forms or emotional or both to varying degrees.

Our 'adaptability' is poor.

We must look for ways to increase the frequency and intensity of our satisfaction, our positive feedback.

There are three different ways to accomplish this.

• Changing our environment, a solution that can essere o meno possibile o pratica, o essendolo, non costituire il rimedio idoneo.
• Tentare di aumentare la nostra adattabilità .
• Provare ad alterare le nostre percezioni .

Modificare il nostro schema di credenze è possibile attraverso un lavoro di de-programmazione e riprogrammazione, l'unica difficoltà è volerlo veramente e permettersi di sperimentare un altro modo di essere nel mondo.